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Do's and Don'ts for Effective Declarative Language Use

July 3, 2026

Do's and Don'ts for Effective Declarative Language Use

Do's and Don'ts for Effective Declarative Language Use


Some practical guidelines to help you navigate the use of declarative language effectively:


Do's:


  • Make It Real: Ensure that the situations you present are genuine and require a response.
  • Share Personal Information: Talk about your feelings, experiences, and immediate context.
  • Pair with Nonverbal Cues: Use exaggerated facial expressions and gestures to support your communication.
  • Allow Initiations: Give the learner opportunities to initiate responses without prompting.
  • Start Small: Begin with one activity or setting, and gradually expand to others.
  • Be Patient: Expect that there will be missed opportunities, and that's okay.

Don'ts:


  • Avoid False Needs: Don't create artificial needs or situations that don't align with reality.
  • Skip Tag Questions: Avoid using tag questions (e.g., "We're going to play ball, right?") after declarative statements.
  • Refrain from Immediate Solutions: Don't solve problems immediately if the learner doesn't respond; allow them time to think.
  • Don’t make the child feel that he has to do all the work: Offer declaratives for inferring information while you are involved in a task with the child. For example, while putting away toys, the adult could pick up a toy and state, “I am putting the train away, the truck is over there.”

Declarative language is a powerful tool for promoting critical thinking, problem-solving, and active engagement. By incorporating it into your communication repertoire and patiently guiding learners, you can help them become more confident and independent thinkers, ready to face the world with curiosity and initiative.